First time I’ve read your post. Sounds like you were here prior?
Your words, best friend reasonates with me…betrayal, lack of understanding, judgement. Thats what happened to mine.
I walked away and never looked back..after harsh words were said. Much more happened which really showed me who she was. How can I miss someone who never was?
Absolutely ! I so resonate with this , and with all your posts in fact!
For me I realise that I was brought up without questioning whether it was ok to gossip. It seems to be a very bad English trait going back generations when that was how news travelled.
I learnt through some quite hard lessons that talking about others behind their back, is a form of psychic attack . It does not help in developing trusting community .
Now therapy is more acceptable as the place to bring our confusions with specific others . But who can afford that?
So one has a few trusted helpful friends it seems, and meditation practices, sitting with nature, bashing some cushions and moving on … but I’m still shocked by friends who let me down , even when I see it arising from their own sense of inadequacy of jealousy or maybe just some weird karma…..
Often it’s just best to go sit in nature and talk to trees and birds! Or ask the flowing river to wash it all away…
Thank you for sharing that. Your words are instructive, comforting and beautiful. I am so thankful to have recently found Open Wings. I appreciate and need all of your posts. 💖
Thank you so much Reta for your encouraging and beautiful words. I am so delighted to see you have joined Open Wings. It is a very supportive and caring community which welcomes everyone and respects you for who you are. I am really touched by your sentiments and they really mean the world to me. Welcome my friend x
First time I’ve read your post. Sounds like you were here prior?
Your words, best friend reasonates with me…betrayal, lack of understanding, judgement. Thats what happened to mine.
I walked away and never looked back..after harsh words were said. Much more happened which really showed me who she was. How can I miss someone who never was?
Thank you Noly for sharing your experience and for reading my essay. I appreciate your support. Have a lovely day
Keep being who you are. People will be envious!❤️
Thank you very much for reading my essay and your thoughtful message. I am very grateful. Have a lovely day my friend x
You too, and welcome back!
Thank you so much Carole. I am grateful to be back.
Absolutely ! I so resonate with this , and with all your posts in fact!
For me I realise that I was brought up without questioning whether it was ok to gossip. It seems to be a very bad English trait going back generations when that was how news travelled.
I learnt through some quite hard lessons that talking about others behind their back, is a form of psychic attack . It does not help in developing trusting community .
Now therapy is more acceptable as the place to bring our confusions with specific others . But who can afford that?
So one has a few trusted helpful friends it seems, and meditation practices, sitting with nature, bashing some cushions and moving on … but I’m still shocked by friends who let me down , even when I see it arising from their own sense of inadequacy of jealousy or maybe just some weird karma…..
Often it’s just best to go sit in nature and talk to trees and birds! Or ask the flowing river to wash it all away…
Thank you for sharing that. Your words are instructive, comforting and beautiful. I am so thankful to have recently found Open Wings. I appreciate and need all of your posts. 💖
Thank you so much Reta for your encouraging and beautiful words. I am so delighted to see you have joined Open Wings. It is a very supportive and caring community which welcomes everyone and respects you for who you are. I am really touched by your sentiments and they really mean the world to me. Welcome my friend x
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Thank you very much for restacking. I appreciate it
Rich mullins song The color green...filmed in Ireland....worth reading the lyrics 💕